Yes, they do need to prove their claims.They cannot come on to this forum and claim they found hackers without proving that. Doesn’t matter what sites are out there. Both of them claimed to have found hackers in game, the onus is on them to prove that by providing their own evidence.
And yes. That is exactly the choice I have to make with griefers. Either I keep playing on another server away from them, or I spend my time reporting them and gathering evidence. They are not going to go away by ignoring them.
I get their frustration. But, proof needs to be seen.
If they just want to vent, this isn’t the place.
Vent directly to the Mods on Discord.